Nonetheless, we started into the new Star Wars game and I began to try to learn what all these different birds do. At one point I asked, "How do I get to that pig down there in the corner?" To which Jeremiah replied, "Grandpa, now watch carefully this time."
He was right. I needed to observe what he did more carefully and spend less time trying to figure it all out by myself.
I think we can learn some similar lessons ourselves about the hard things we face in our marriages, families or life in general. Sometimes we need to be willing to have others help us. We may need people who have walked the road before us to share their wisdom . . . and we need to listen to them.
We may need finances, food, a gift card, a loan of a cabin or condo to take the pressure off of what we're facing. And yet so often our pride gets in the way and we refuse. And we pay the price - emotionally, physically or even spiritually. We lose out and end up worse off when we don't let the Jeremiah's of the world model healthy behavior for us or share some resources that we desperately need.
If you're going through a hard time get some help. Counseling won't kill you and doesn't mean you're stupid. Have a mentor? You might consider it. Someone offering to take your kids at certain times so you can get some rest? Let them do it. It doesn't mean you're a bad parent.
Does a friend or your church want to give you some money to get you through a hard time? Often we refuse because we think we look bad and can't provide. Let them do it anyway. God put these people in your way for a reason. We spoil others' opportunity to get a blessing too when we don't let them help.
So, if you're struggling, it might be a good time to listen to someone close to you who has some insights that could be helpful. It's never good to be in the darkness alone.
Doug,
ReplyDeleteGlad the article was timely and helpful. Actually Jackie and I listened to you a few times recently after we got our trial "Sirius" account. Wish you God's best. Never quit climbing.